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Pregnancy and New Parents

Planning for pregnancy

If you are hoping to start a family, there are many positive steps you can take to prepare your body and mind for pregnancy.

The West Yorkshire Healthier Together website have pulled together key information that can support your fertility and overall wellbeing during this important time.

Planning for pregnancy :: West Yorkshire Healthier Together

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The Story of You

‘The Story of You’ video celebrates the journey of early childhood, highlighting the vital role parents play in your child’s life and the support available.

The film is scripted by children’s author Camilla Reid (author of the Pip and Posy books), illustrated by Rob Biddulph (illustrator of Blown Away and Odd Dog Out) and narrated by famous parents; dancer and author Oti Mabuse, TV personality Billie Shepherd, online creators Ms Apple and Tay Kabs, as well as much-loved character, Mummy Pig from the Peppa Pig series alongside ‘Secret Life of 4 Year Olds’ childhood expert Professor Sam Wass.

Best Start in Life website

Being a parent is full of joyful firsts but can also feel daunting, with questions both big and small, which is why our Best Start in Life website brings together trusted advice, support and guidance for parents to turn to. Whether you are wondering when the right time is to wean your baby, looking into childcare support options, or thinking about activities to get your child ready for school, the Best Start in Life website offers a broad range of information for families, including eligibility for childcare offers, help to find free breakfast clubs in their area, and support on pregnancy through to starting school and beyond.

Subscribe to the Best Start in Life newsletter or personalised weekly emails for tailored updates, tips, and guidance throughout your journey as a parent.

Register your pregnancy

You can self-refer to the Maternity Service: www.badgernotes.net/SelfReferral/CareLocation/midyorks. Where possible, register before you are 10 weeks pregnant so you can be provided with full antenatal support. You will need your NHS number to complete the self-referral form. If you don’t know your NHS number, you can find it here: bit.ly/FindNHSnumber

Going Smoke-free during Pregnancy

Yorkshire Smokefree Wakefield offer a programme to support you with going smoke-free during pregnancy. There is a range of help and advice available.

Register to join your local Family Hub

You can register you and your baby at your local Family Hub and access a range of FREE groups and sessions looking at child development, feeding your child, and your wellbeing all whilst meeting other parents. The groups include Baby Stay and Play, Introducing Solids, Baby and Me, Maternal Journal, Baby Massage and HENRY.
Find your local Family Hub here: Family Hubs, and register with our easy online registration form here: Online Registration Form

Midwifery support: pre-birth to day 10

Before the birth of your child, your midwife will organise your care and offer you a range of appointments. You can book classes that focus on your wellbeing, offer advice on your pregnancy and prepare you for birth. Find out more about maternity services here.

The Early Pregnancy Assessment Unit offers help and support for those experiencing problems in early pregnancy up to 16 weeks. For further support, visit: Mid Yorks – Early Pregnancy Assessment.

At your booking appointment, your Midwife will provide you with a Mothers & Others Guide. This booklet will give you all the key information you need about making feeding choices, building strong bonds and caring for your new baby.

Antenatal classes cover pregnancy, labour and feeding. The Midwifery Team offer a range of antenatal classes, find out more here: Mid Yorks NHS – Antenatal Classes
Families and Babies (FAB) offer many types of antenatal support, including face-to-face group sessions, one-to-one sessions, online antenatal courses, and more! Contact FAB here: Families and Babies (FAB) – Antenatal Classes
 
After your baby is born, your midwife will support you in deciding how to feed your baby and providing support to breastfeed. Care can be provided up to 28 days after birth if required. This can provide long term health benefits for you both. Visit www.nhs.uk/start4life for more information.
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Registering the birth of your child

It is the law that you register a birth within 42 days of the date of birth. To register a birth at the Wakefield or Pontefract Register Office, please book online at www.wakefield.gov.uk/registerabirth

Understanding your amazing baby

Amazing baby

Ready to Relate

Babies are born sociable, interested and seeking companionship. This new Ready to Relate digital resource will help you to understand, interact, communicate and build your relationship with your baby. Please visit the link below (no password needed).

Baby and Me – Nurturing Connections

Baby and Me is for expectant and new parents to help you prepare for parenthood and the first year with your baby. This programme looks at responding to your baby, implementing routines and lots of other support using the Triple P (Positive Parenting Programme) resources which have been tried and tested across the world.

Baby and Me is the natural next step in your parenting journey after your antenatal classes and is delivered at your local Family Hub, contact them to find out more.

Baby and Me

Bonding with your baby in the first 6 months

Watch this short docu-film following the early life and brain development of baby Margot. Learn about how the first 6 months lay the foundations for lots of big life skills.

You can learn more about baby brain development below:

Baby brain development – Togetherness

Sling Information

Many parents wonder if using a baby sling is a safe way to keep their baby close while going hands free, and if swaddling is a safe way to keep baby feeling secure. If you choose to swaddle your baby, please follow the advice on the Lullaby Trust website: Slings and swaddling

Infant crying is normal

Comforting methods can help and it is okay to walk away if your baby is safe. Never shake your baby. Talk to your health visitor or GP or visit iconcope.org/ for more info.

Safer Sleep Advice

The safest place for your baby to sleep is in a clear, flat and separate sleep space. You can talk to your health visitor or visit www.lullabytrust.org.uk/safer-sleep-advice/ for more information.

Health Visiting Support for the first 2 years

The health visiting service offers every family a series of visits and appointments to check if you and your baby are healthy and developing well.

Your health visitor will usually visit you and your baby at six key stages from 0-5 years.
To find out more visit Help with children’s health – Wakefield Council or call 0-19 Service on 0300 373 0944

New Growing Healthy 0-19 Service App

The Wakefield 0-19 Service have launched a new app. The app provides information including videos on a wide range of topics:

  • infant feeding
  • diet and nutrition
  • child development
  • perinatal, infant and child emotional health
  • making sure your child is ready for school

Download the app here: on Google Play (Android), or in the App Store (iOS)

Real Nappies

The average child will use 5040 nappies before they are potty trained. Nappies are NOT recyclable, so why not try a washable cloth alternative which will cost a third of the price, and if used on second and third children you will have a £0 nappy bill.

Healthy Start Vouchers

The Healthy Start Voucher can be used to buy milk, fruit and vegetables (fresh, frozen or tinned). Eligible pregnant women can claim from 10 weeks, and eligible parents with at least one child under 4 years of age. You can apply by email, phone or online: www.healthystart.nhs.uk/how-to-apply

getUBetter - Women's Pelvic Health Pathway

getUBetter is a FREE NHS Perinatal app to support women who are pregnant or have given birth. The app gives you everything you need to care for your pelvic health, including advice on symptoms, work, and return to activity.

Find out more here: getUBetter app

Screen time guidance for under 2s

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Limit screen time for young children wherever possible.

For children under 2 years, avoid screentime other than for shared activities with family that encourage bonding, interaction and conversation.

Shared activities could include video calling with friends and family or looking through digital photo albums together.

To see the full guidance for screen time for children under 5, visit: Baby and toddler screen time guidance – Best Start in Life

Potty Training

Most children are ready to master potty independence from around 18 months, and research shows it is better for your child’s bladder and bowel health to stop using nappies between 18 and 30 months.

If you’re wondering when and how to start potty training with your child, the ERIC website has information, tips, resources and podcasts to support you with every step.

Potty training – ERIC

ERIC potty

The Starting Reception website also has a Potty Training Guide with tips and information on potty training from your child being 18 months as well.

The Potty Training Guide – Starting Reception